No doubt, though, that anything he has sent you, or said to you, is coloured with whatever OW has to say. Here is a man in MLC, just had a back op, probably suffering from PTSD, would be highly suggestible by a woman who he is infatuated with. He would believe anything she says because you have become the enemy. That's MLC for you, and top that with PTSD .... I just can't imagine how that combo would look like inside his head.
I would send the emails to sheriff to place in your complaints file. This is a kind of harassment, trying to force you to sign something you don't want to sign.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim