First off. BREATH!! slow down. This is a long process. It can go as fast and as slow as you want (2 years plus).

This is all about POWER and CONTROL. It's a pissing contest. She is just trying to get a REACTION. Dont REACT but RESPOND in a day or so.

Just use this OPPORTUNITY to VALIDATE her feelings. Just shut up and listen and say "I can understand how you could feel that way..."

Then let her know that you will not stand in her way but you do not believe in quiting or divorce as an option.

Show her RESPECT by listening and not interupting. Show your STRENGTH.

Just stay calm, cool and collected.

PMA