I do think my H asking how I feel was looking for me to say I want the M to work. You know, testing to see if the old Susan is in there beneath the now "new" Susan. I am glad I didn't do say anything like that. H also said "we are separated even though we are still in house together". Really, so why should I fret over a word I said. Thanks for taking the 2x4 upside my head!!!
I am glad you didn't fall into the trap your WAW set up for you either. Good for you for being strong. Let her rant and rave, you stay cool, calm, collected. I think the WAS should be the one to leave. Unfortunately my H owns this house.