I thought it meant a lot of him to be a step dad and also for me to be there to parent his son, but he said he went from being a labor of love to something he wasn't sure he was willing to do. He made a promise to us less than two years ago, hardly seems fair. I'm hoping he comes around in a big way, but things are looking pretty bleak right now. can you tell me why an other wise rational man would leave a FB message between him and the OW up on the home computer on Father's Day. It's like he wanted to get caught while it was still an EA but who knows. Happy Father's Day to him!

For the life of me I can't understand why people do these things to each other. That's the part I have trouble accepting. If you say you love and respect me, then why?


M: 49
H: 51
Together since 11/2006
Married 8/2008
D: 16, 15, 12
Step S: 10
Bomb drop: 6/20/10
H Very unhappy and confused but staying and doing the work for now.