I dont know if you have read up on "blame culture", but it plagues the home as much as it does the business environment.
Creating an environment/culture of fingerpointing just demoralizes everyone and creates panic and fear. It isn't a constructive solution to problem-solving.
Businesses that resort to blame and finger pointing suffer financiall ironically enough.. there are stats to prove it.
Businesses that identifiy problems quickly and act to rectify them without harming their workforce recover from problems much more efficiently.
Ironically his blaming is actually OVER wasted money lol
Has it ever occured to him that blaming you reduces YOUR motivation to go to school and secure employment? Has it ever occured to him that blaming you doens't RECOVER the money that was lost? Has it ever occured to him that BLAMING you and running away will COST MORE because in that scenario he has to pay for TWO homes instead of one?
His current strategy makes no financial sense whatsoever... and any halwway decent business manager would just fire him for blatant mismanagement of finances and staff.
