Having a tough day, too. Going on vacation with H and 4 kids on Saturday and trying to get ready with H without interacting too much. I almost didn't go, thought I should GAL and maybe he would miss me, but I decided to go because I didn't want to ruin the kids trip at the last minute and raise questions since we haven't really separated yet, this both of us pulling away is very painful. I was so use to him being there for me and visa versa. I thought we did a pretty good job together, but apparently H thought differently, he says I'm a wonderful person and great at all the stuff I do at home, etc., but that he just isn't happy and feels trapped. Not exactly the summer I was hoping for and having trouble implementing GAL with this vacation looming.
M: 49 H: 51 Together since 11/2006 Married 8/2008 D: 16, 15, 12 Step S: 10 Bomb drop: 6/20/10 H Very unhappy and confused but staying and doing the work for now.
