Originally Posted By: Allen A
I would just ask him for specifics


What financial mistakes have I made specifically? If what you MEAN to say but can't summon anything other than abuse to communicate is that money got wasted I agree with you. But I will not stand here and accept blame by YOU.

Find the specifics and bring them to me or stop BLAMING and OWN your own your families finances. I can point at a dozen things you bought that I didn't agree with.

The difference here is I am not villifying you for spending money. I don't think BLAMING you will bring the money back either... It just HURTS people when you BLAME.. So STOP it.


I dunno, stuff like that...


That's just it: he doesn't care that it hurts. In his mind, it SHOULD hurt - I SHOULD hurt! He is wanting to blame me for all of his unhappiness and discontent with his life and not look at himself. MLC even though he won't admit it.