It's easy to draw boundaries with people who have nothing you want or need. It's a whole different story to draw them and risk the other person walking away.
Yup.
Something we say also
It is easy to detach(boundary) from someone who is an a$$hole
Harder to do it with love.
This is the step beyond this discussion and I am interested in where you guys come down on it so I'll put it out there.
Regarding your W
Now we all have set boundaries in terms of detachment at least and maybe more...
And we do risk them walking away.
And they do have something we want or need right?
or
at least we perceived that we needed it or wanted it.
So what is love then?
I mean the love we promised to have for our spouse when we took our vows.
Unconditional Love?
And what do we need?
How do we need to be loved?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am