Nice job on the financial management script... That will help me A LOT because he uses this as his main cause of "having no feelings" for me: I devastated his life and the family... he is ruined because of me... NO responsibility for self.

I don't know if he will actually hear any of it: maybe that 10% we were talking about will get through. I've already told him he needs to own up to his part: he refuses - or says it doesn't matter.