What financial mistakes have I made specifically? If what you MEAN to say but can't summon anything other than abuse to communicate is that money got wasted I agree with you. But I will not stand here and accept blame by YOU.
Find the specifics and bring them to me or stop BLAMING and OWN your own your families finances. I can point at a dozen things you bought that I didn't agree with.
The difference here is I am not villifying you for spending money. I don't think BLAMING you will bring the money back either... It just HURTS people when you BLAME.. So STOP it.