Well - I DO see it: it's that HE doesn't want to own up to his part. He claims he didn't say anything because I just wanted my way. Isn't his responsibility to still be a man???
Next time he attacks you for financial mismanagement :
I am willing to accept accountability for 50% of our financial situation. No more and no less. YOU spend money just as I do. We BOTH work, not just YOU. The only differnce is I don't get PAID to raise YOUR KIDS... I have to do THAT with NO FINANCIAL gratitude at ALL.
If you can come up with some actual FACTS showing how I mismanaged things while you were careful with spending I would be happy to read it and own it... But wreckless fingerpointing is just tantamount to abuse.
If you want to start practicing spousal abouse you know where the door is.
I will not stand here and be attacked like this. OWN your HISTORY just like I AM. STOP BLAMING OTHERS and WORK on the PROBLEM. And running away to an apartment isnt working, its cowardly and selfish... you are just leaving your family to deal with the probelm that you ran away from.
