It's shocking what they say and do sometimes, Sunny - cut you to the quick and then rub salt in the wound.
We've all made mistakes in our marriage, we've all said and done stupid things that hurt our partners - but usually NOT deliberately. That they treat us with such cruelty and thoughtlessness in return sometimes is jaw-dropping. They wouldn't treat a stranger the way they treat someone they professed to love once upon a time...
Exactly! Talking to H though you would think I have deliberately destroyed him. Oh, but anything he's ever done isn't really "all that bad". Crazy, huh?!!!! Esp. if you remember he once left me with 2 small children...and 3 years later had a cyber-affair! But my spending "too much" or wanting things a certain way is totally unforgivable! Right.
