I didn't think to ask, even though my H is totally committed to working things out; open to questions, has been letting me know if OW contacts him, closed his facebook and usually tells me who calls/texts on his cell phone, should I have insisted he give me passwords and access to his laptop and cell phone? There has been so many lies and deception in the past I have no trust anymore and he understands that but I never thought to do any of that.
