What kind of financial mismanagement in teh history are we talking about here?
Any idea how much $ total?
It varies greatly whether you ask him or you look at the facts. To hear him talk, I've thrown away thousands and thousands of dollars... ran us into the ground. The facts are, it takes a lot more money to raise a family to the standard of living we have than what he realizes. Even the FT said he was totally unrealistic in this. Now: have I not managed money well and could've spent less on the kids? Absolutely. At the same time, H has taken NO responsibility financially either. H has always had full access to just about every dime I spend and that he spends and where it is going. He doesn't manage money well either yet us not having a big bank account is all my fault. I have 2 credit cards in my name that he does not have full access to, yet I have provided him with all that information. The credit limit on each? $300.00. BIG money, right??? Hardly. I don't even use them very often. It's just nice to have something in my name that I can purchase gifts with or whatever. So, yes, I totally admit my part in the financial irresponsibility but I don't see where he can say it's all me when he's always had access to knowledge of everything.
Well - I DO see it: it's that HE doesn't want to own up to his part. He claims he didn't say anything because I just wanted my way. Isn't his responsibility to still be a man???
