Hi Pookie69,

Thanks for the insight.I guess that is what I meant by what I said, free to be our true selves in a R/M. H still is most likley thinking I agree with him, ending M is best. H is very literal , so what I said this morning, he will take as my full agreement that M should be over.

Yes, your wisdom makes sense.
I hope things turn around for you also.

I just am not feeling good about what I said this morning, the being free part. I think I implied we should part ways. I am doing some hand wringing over it, thought I was past all that. It's making me nervous. Should I say anything to H to clarify? HELP!!! lol


SQ