LOTS of great stuff here! I'm going to print out a lot of it to have.
It IS terrible that he is keeping this over all of our heads and going to the kids for validation of his actions. I'm not sure why that didn't hit me harder previously than now!
LOVE the script. Will discuss it with the kids.
It's so hard: I keep thinking he is going to come to his senses and yet, every time he appears to do so, he counteracts it with something else that says "not"! Take yesterday: out of the blue texting me about getting rid of Facebook. Then he turns around and tells me that he was apt hunting last night. Who does this stuff to a person??? Emotionally immature, selfish people in WAS mode, of course. But why?! Why have they got to be so cruel?