I agree. Family should not be involved in R issues. I only make decisions based on what I want, not from input extended family or friends.
None of my friends know anything about my M problems. Only my oldest brother is aware of my status right now. This is only because he is having R problems with his live in girlfriend. Family usually "takes" our side no matter what. I don't want any part of that. I know what I did in the M, the real truth. Not the time to have my head buried in the sand.
I have read both Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy, twice each. I am doing the 180. This is the last resort. H wants out of M.