Originally Posted By: pinhead
If I was a real jerk, I'd bring up bankruptcy again, just to freak her out. But I have to remind myself to do the Right Thing. Not just for her, but for my daughters.


You boys need to quit being "jerks" and "a-holes" to your woman. If y'all are trying to work the bad boy / good guy angle because it works in GQ underwear ads you re going about it all wrong.

Treat your woman like a slab of meat and you will get dumped
hard. sometimes with a vengeance.
take your house, take your kids, take your money. Be a jerk you will end up being treated like a jerk should.

If you want a divorce, be a man,
and go about it the right (civilized and amicable) way

If you want to save your marriage, be a man,
also.

Let me paint you a little picture of a possible future, in case you think this is the only woman in the world, you act like a jerk, treat her like crap, cuss, fight over some piece of paper called money, and you wind up divorced anyway the every woman she knows and many she doesnt know too, (you know the little circle you need to start the rest of your life from) knows you act like a jerk, treat women like crap, cuss, fight over money and probably heard some rumor through the grapevine that you got a little thing that wont stay up. Those are some difficult things to get past once your thrown back into the dating world. It's a small world.

Be a man, not a jerk.