Seeking some insight

[Crushed in KY]

OK, She just called me after leaving her therapist and I again told her if she can't break it of she needs to move out.

I have also talked to her Aunt and Cousin both of which, have talked to her briefly about what they sensed immediately upon their arrival at our house this morning. They both said the same thing that she isn't acting like she's in her right mind.

Her Aunt confided in me that she had been through something similar with her husband before he was diagnosed as "Manic". They both said that they felt she wasn't making good choices or decisions and that she should seek medical attention in addition to counseling from the therapist.

They are both going to talk to her at length when she returns this evening and strongly urge her to do that. He cousin actually said she would "drag her" if necessary to see someone regarding this before she does irreparable damage to us, our family and her life.

I have talked to a lawyer this morning whom I spoke with previously regarding this situation and he is drafting a letter to send to this guy advising formally to stay away and if he doesn't then the next step will be legal action.