I agree with WN. I think because he didn't respond to you it's a perfect out for you. If he comes back then you tell him like WN suggested. I was OK with Zoobrew (he seemed genuine and a MITCH! lol) but Rugby sounded a bit too needy...remember I commented in the passing that wow he was already touching your stomach etc? but then I thought that's how other guys are
Other than that sounds like you're well and good!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again