Keep working on yourself. Your W is so fixated on the home sale, it's clouding her judgement. When that's done, maybe things will clear up for her.
My wife is the same way. All she can think about is getting her appt. Everything else is just an obstacle.
If I was a real jerk, I'd bring up bankruptcy again, just to freak her out. But I have to remind myself to do the Right Thing. Not just for her, but for my daughters.
