Sol, great job on confronting him! You got the answer that you didn't want to hear but needed to hear. I'm sorry this happened to you but I really do see a much healthier better future for you! You have time on your side and you're that much wiser from this experience.

He's being nice out of guilt and possibly so you can be lenient in the divorce process with the house etc- DON'T!!! Don't give up even a cent than what you're legally entitled to! This will make him mad but he can't have it both ways!

Last edited by ImprovedRomeo; 08/04/10 04:41 PM.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again