Is your H still living in your home? I wish mine would agree to not see OW. I haven't asked him because I don't want to push him away. I am trying to be friendly and cool; getting together with friends. I'm going away this weekend with girlfriends while he stays home with the kids. I hope that will make him see that I am changing (for the last two years my focus was on the girls and I didn't have energy for anything else). For any of you who have been through this I would love some feedback. M: 44 H: 43 Together since 1986 Married 9/91 D: 24, 18, 16 Bomb drop: 7/8/10
