Believe it or not, you have the stronger position here. Because she has no passion and doesn't really care about what it is she's fighting for. Yes she might have a crack attorney, but all that guy cares about is money. You are the ONLY person fighting for what's best for your kids.
Agree with Goodman, Dan. You are Poland, fighting on your own soil, for your homeland. Be as brave and courageous and resourceful as they were.
I also love the business analogy -- TREAT THIS AS THE MOST IMPORTANT BUSINESS DEAL OF YOUR LIFE (because it is), and PREPARE
