Ok Cas just read through you sich pretty quickly from newcomers. It took 6 hours. It was 87 pages! LOL.
First bit of advice is that MWD rules on the board is after you get to 10 pages to start a new thread. The board mechanics work better if no one has huge threads. So we try to be self regulating about that.
You should put a link on your sich in newcomers to help people find this thread here. And when this one is done link this one to your next thread and vice versa. This really helps when you are re-reading later down the line.
I see your daughter is a swimmer. I will just say for now that I really like that. Does she swim year round or just for recreation?
As far as your sich goes there is a huge gap between Jan - July of this year and now your H seems to be starting to reconnect. There is still an OW so he is still in replay. However we will have to watch, wait and see. Patience is the name of the game here. So pull up your chair, get some popcorn and we can all watch together.
Keep posting, asking questions. The only bad question is the one you don't ask.
