Okay so I said that it was rock bottom and couldn't get any worse.....drum roll please........
Guess what he is doing now!!?????
He has an affair with an employee from work, destroys our marriage, destroys my daughter's life, gambles money that he doesn't have, loses his job and what does he do??????
Well isn't it what anyone would do if they had done all of this?
GO ON VACATION!!
And where pre-tell would someone go who had been a cheating, lying, gambling bastrd???
Where all the gambling, lying, cheating bstrds go...... LAS VEGAS of course!!!!!
He was supposed to be seeing a lawyer yesterday and now he tells me August 12. He is stalling on getting things overwith in this marriage and making my life a living hell.
He continues to live in our house, walking in at 6-7am in the morning, sleeping until 12-1pm and then gone until the next am. I am getting so sick of this.
I just feel complete anger now towards him. On top of all of this he seems to think that although he has "done wrong" I should still respect him! RESPECT????? RESPECT IS SOMETHING THAT IS EARNED!!! What sort of respect should I have for him? It is pathetic.
Ofcourse he is also blaming me for him being fired from his job. He is convinced that i contacted his work and told them about the affair with the employee and told them to pull his phone records. He must be clinically insane. Obviously this is the last thing that I would do b/c I need him to pay for our D. As much as I would have revelled in the revenge of doing this I did not do it. He has actually gone to the point of telling me that I am so smart and that I had planned this with my family and councellor....basically I went and got a lawyer and then waited a bit and then called his work and got him fired so that now he would have to make a decision about what to do.....
He can't afford 2 lawyers so he is faced with the decision of just walk away from the marriage and agree to all my terms and not get himself a lawyer for that and then get a lawyer to save his job Or don't save his job and accept what has happened and get a lawyer and take me for everything that I have or at least get what he feels entitled to or what he is entitled to.
He really is crazier than I thought. I can't believe that he would think that I am sitting around w my councellor scheming and planning on how to screw him. Just b/c that is what he has done to me does not mean that I go around doing the same.
It is truly insane! I think I should copy all of my posts and turn this into a book or movie script. I am living a movie or a soap opera. I am almost finding it hard pressed to find someone that has been through something this insane. But I am sure there is someone else out there.
The only thing good is that I won't have to see him for a few days and I won't have to hide my cell phone, rings and D's passport. It will be nice not having to look over my shoulder for a few days.
M=42 H=51 Common-law 6yr Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son Bomb dropped January 2013
