Have you ever noticed how people in 3rd world nations do not go thru mid life crisis? They are too busy worrying about a place to sleep or their next meal to go and "find themselves", etc.
Your H losing his job has placed livelihood and food on the table higher up on the priority list than it was before he lost his job. Even your R will take a back seat to starving. I would take this as an opportunity to work together as a team to overcome no income.
I have 20 years in the military. When we first joined we are placed together with people from different walks of life and prejudices. All that was forgotten when a drill instructor yells and spit hits your face. All we could think about as a group was self preservation. All walks of life bonded because we HAD to. Same principle.
Last edited by Chuck66; 08/04/1003:57 PM.
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010
