He's struggling with his communication issues with the X (It's all done except the Judge's hammer, I think.) and what he perceives as her anger and hatefulness.
Sister, has he seen his IC? He'd mentioned some time ago that his sessions seemed to help.
Originally Posted By: Sister
He also just found out that his X Father-in-law has colon cancer, so both of them have a new tragedy to deal with. He grieves the loss of her family as well as the marriage as he feels he can't reach out to him now.
Oh, how sad. I'm so sorry to hear this. They'll all be in my prayers.
Originally Posted By: Sister
I'm hoping Gardener will connect with him. I know he's in the alt. and has some perspectives that might help him.
Oh me too. I'm so sorry I can't go there. I'm afraid of friending someone from here, whom my H doesn't know in case it raises questions. Again, I'm so sorry. Is there any way I can help otherwise - a supportive letter to him in my thread? to keep bumping his thread in hopes some of his old friends here see he needs help? - I so wish I could help.
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I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
Is there any way I can help otherwise - a supportive letter to him in my thread? to keep bumping his thread in hopes some of his old friends here see he needs help? - I so wish I could help. 
