Contacting him for any reason would look like pursuing.
I tried to warn her about jumping back into dating before she had done the work to put the M really behind her.
Dating is a battle zone, and there are so many folks who go to work, pay their taxes, and who are otherwise good citizens, but... who have either too much baggage or character issues....
Not being 'ready' yet puts her at least in the 'too much baggage' category, and I dare say a bit too needy to make the best judgements.
I think I had better not comment on this thread anymore.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-