My wife being “bat-chit” crazy and wanting to ‘get away from me’ or possibly divorce me is one thing. I am not giving on my marriage and family, but if my wife chooses to go down that path I cannot force her to stay.
When you understand the concept of detachment along with the learning curve of the LBS
You will see that what we tell you is true.
Don't believe me?
What is your strategy to "protect" your W from this predator who is taking advantage of her?
It will be like taking crack from a crack addict
Like taking a drink from an alcoholic
Stealing an ice cream cone from a kid
She wants this...
And any attempt you try to take it away from her she will resist
Especially if you have been trying to control her already
THAT is precisely what she is running from.
I can't speak to the cultural differences
BUT
I know that if you try to impose your will on her
It will be painful for YOU.
I am a big believer that you have to experience your own mistakes before you learn...
So do what you think is right.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
