I am not crazy about the idea of sharing a bed that my ex (I guess in this case) wife would use with her current significant other. She heard this from one of her other seperated friends. Has anyone out there heard of this and could it work?
Get thee some self respect man!!!
How could you even entertain the mere thought of sleeping in the same bed that your wife and the OM would use? Tell her the bed is off limits and also that you won't be sharing your home with the OM. She can use her condo to conduct her affair, the home remains as is, untouched by this OM's presence. He is not allowed in your home. Stand up for yourself, it's required.