Yup, this is pretty standard... up one day down the next...
You are managing incredibly well... photographing the move, sneaking property back to avoid confrontation, not harassing your wife and letting her dig her gravesite... well done
I know its hard, but the way you are going about everything is the healhthiest route you have to trust us there...
Keep busy, sounds like you are, but that's probably one of the most important right now...
Try to pack some of her things too... This will show her you are ok with her going I think...
