I did that but she's insistent on putting on this facade while her relatives are here.
Time to go see an attorney, then.
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I suppose it's so that they don't look at her in a bad light.
Put together an thoughtful letter that goes something like:
I am sorry to tell you that our marriage is in trouble. _____ has been having an affair with a 23 year old man with a troubled history, and I have asked her to leave, not because I do not want to fight for my marriage, but because I want to protect myself and our children from this predator she is seeing and because her behavior is not something I want our children to be continually exposed to.
I appreciate your support in this matter.
Give them each copies of the letter. Then step back. She is going to get angry because you didn't help her carry out her Big Lie. She is going to run "dammage control" and spin many more webs of deceit. Do not engage her. If you say anything, ask her if she has found an apartment yet or say you did not want to lie for her.
