There are many wonderful and well-meaning people who post on these boards. They care a lot and want to help. However, please know that there are solutions beyond what some of them may suggest. I strongly recommend that you speak with a Divorce Busting Coach for direction for your future and the future of your family. Your coach will - first of all - help you clarify your thinking. I know your head must be spinning -- looking in all direction to find a clear picture of what is happening right now and what you might be able to do about it. Then your coach will help you come up with a specific plan to get your life back on track. Many marriages actually grow and become better after surviving an affair. I've seen that happen thousands of times. So be sure to check out all of your options. Keep your eyes open. There are many possibilities out there for you.
