As far as protecting my family that's not even a consideration I have already told her that while she is involved with him that she will under no circumstances expose any of our children to him. She is in agreement with that or so she says. Presently the older children don't really want to have much to do with her anyway. The see what's happened for themselves and have come to resign themselves to the fact that she may be leaving again and may not come back.
Sadly her 15 year old was here during her last "escape" and we had several conversations. One of the last things he said before he left was that " I hope you guys don't get a divorce because I don't want her (his mother) to treat the kids like she treated me growing up" (She has had very minimal contact with him since we got married and according to her it's because of me.
He seems to have a different opinion of that however.
M/49 H/35 Married 10 yrs 4 kids: B9, D7, B5, D3 Learned of EA June 2010 ILYBNILWU June 2010 Learned of SA July 2010
