Staying dry is not a problem here where I am. My H is b!tc$ing about the water bill because I have to keep the grass alive. The worst part is, it's a dry county, and I can't even "water" myself.
You plan that vacation for yourself. Do something YOU'VE always wanted to do but couldn't because W wasn't interested. Take a flying lesson, go to a golf tournament. ( I'm mentioning things that most women would rather die than do.)Whatever it it, make sure it occupys your mind as well as your body. That's the trick to it.