love it. I've been tossing around about a dozen names for the J22 I just bought and this is perfect. Thanks Goodman.
Now Daniel. This income split is not standard for the county you live in? The idea should be to maintain the pre-divorce standard of living for the children. It sounds correct. If you were in NY your attorney would haved turned and said "we did good."
Now, I'm not a lawyer but I have been fighting with my wife for the past 20 years...
and it could be argued that this alleged pornography concern, if there is sufficient proof to justify, is the outcome of years of sexual abandonment and emotional abuse from your wife, including an affair, that you had to suffer living through in order to maintain a sense of security and family for your children. The real issues here is your wifes morals and ability to provide a stable environment if she is unable to contain herself with men coming and going in her life while involved in a marriage.
BUT, we are interested in busting divorces no matter how crappy the situation not destorying civility and communication amongst parents of young children. IF you study your writings over the course of the past 2 months what 180's could you do with your communication skills and additude towards your wife and marriage?