I don't see why you have to wait.

If it were me (and you have to decide for YOU), I think I would say, "You have a week to find an apartment, and your relatives can help you move".

I don't know how to put it so that you will understand that you wanting her to fix herself, while natural, isn't really healthy at this point.

You need to do what Puppy calls "Go Papa Bear" on her. You need to protect yourself and your family from this predator she is inviting into your lives. You need to establish some healthy boundaries (e.g. I will not live in an open marriage, and I will protect my children from this predator you have invited into our lives to end our marriage).

Last edited by TimeHeals; 08/04/10 11:57 AM.
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