Good for you BND. My FIL is still good friends with me, although I've noticed he's included OW in his 'jokes of the day' sessions on email. Haven't heard from BIL. Worse is my step-sons, who I had a hand in raising. They are always sweet to me, but there is a tension there. I realize they are in a tough spot. I just keep making little friendly overtures to them, to keep in touch.
