Beyond Depression..but still a losing battle?

[awest1217]

It is so hard to know exactly what to do. H is really being loving and you don't want to nag him, but you don't want him to be with her and you. It is something only you can decide. It sounds like this could be an issue all the time with your R because H wants to befriend the ladies too much.

It is a really hard decision. Keep doing what you feel is best, but it is important that you stay consistant. You can't tell him no contact, but then do it. You also can't hang out with him, but keep asking about OW3 either. You need to go one way or the other and stick with it so H knows what to expect and you can see if going dark or being his cheer leader is working.