i just finished divorce rememdy.Wow. I could really relate to some of the issues stated in there.. im starting my 180.and trying my best obviously to GAL. Ive been doing so well, im slowy starting to be independent and i think less each day of reminising the good times.
Last weekend he msged me to see if i needed help with the dog bills and how she was. At first i was surprised he msged, i hadn't spoke to him weeks. I keep the reply back simple, friendly and to the point.He replied back with something short like ok. But i didnt bother replying back.
Today, he found out that i was goin to thailand for nye to this particular beach party on a small island, i find out he is going too!such a coincidence, i was going away to get away from everything.he sent me a text swearing and being angry saying that i should change my dates or even change my holidays. I refrained from getting angry, and replied calmly that there was no way i was going to change anything. Im quite angry he has asked me to do this, he kicked me out and i had to change my lifestyle and now he wants me to change my holidays with my girlfriends.We have already set in stone dates and flights.
what should i do???
Me: 28 H:30 M:19/03/09 Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10 Together: 7 1/2 years Married : 2yr 3 months S:26/06/10 reconciliation started: 1/10/10 Separation 2: 4/5/2011