Meh, I think I overpursued. Wife was really cold last night when I got home from work, wouldn't make eye contact at all. After dinner I took the dog out for a 2mile walk, and told her i'd be going to the Y afterwards. She asked when I was getting back, told her around 9pm, which irritated her.
Came home, she was asleep on the couch. Luckily my little ones were still awake, so I got to say goodnight to them. Love them!
Kept expecting her to come talk to me after I showered and went to bed, but she didn't until a rainstorm woke her around 11. She just climbed into bed and went to sleep.
I'm pretty sure she's decided against further MC etc.
I'm pretty detached though. Seeing so many beautiful women working out at the Y is a real boost!
Should be an interesting day. We have to go to our bank to finish our refi on the house, and she has the whole day off.
I don't think I'll be able to be friends with her when she separates. I'll never trust someone who did this to me, my daughters and who is breaking what I consider a sacred vow. And when she says that everything she does is for the girls, I want to puke; this is all about her and no one else. She's such a coward.
Now watch me be 100% wrong, and have her tell me yes, she wants to try, but is soooo scared. Hah. Won't happen.
