He also mentioned that his mom seems to have changed her attitude towards me (we've never gotten along wonderfully, she used to be quite dominating and manipulative, but she changed when her dad, H's grandad died recently), We sort of started getting along better because I confided in her about the situation (h speech), and she was nice to me, so it started us on a different foot, he sees it as me 'putting in effort with her' to please him - its was one of the things he asked me to do just before the speech.
I do want to please him obviously, but I would have gotten along well with her now that shes changed a bit regardless, but I'm glad he sees it and appreciates it. I think ? but then again it may seem like I'm 'trying'? Pressure? Although he doesnt seem pressured by it, he seems neatral, oh dear, maybe he doesnt really care if we get along or not anymore cause he's done with us
