fb2, 3 days ago we were window shopping and I showed him a ...purse (told you some habbits die hard). I said "get it for me my love", with a giigle, he said "sure, do you really like it?"... Yetsreday he said" "I was going to get you the purse as well but the store was closed". LOL... whatever.
Dr. Love, what you are saying about being hard for them too: I am having difficulty finding so much compassion for my H to where I would feel at ease with what he does and not want more. Somehow, in my head, compassion is one thing and getting a free pass is another. If those WAS that return dont man up or woman up at some point, it will not work out. A R cant be running on one spouses' fuels for ever. As long as there is progress,it is good. But progress because of their doings as well. Not because we again give our 150%... Do I make any sense?
