It is very difficult to trust anything the wh's do. I can remember my h asking if he could see the kids and visit with them some months ago. my usual response was sure in the house,. but this time i said sure i'll have them ready for you to pick up.

guess what?

he never showed! give the man what he wants do a 180 and he still didn't see his kids, i know he was like hmm she's bsing me, or something is going on, and he was SCARED, to this day he has never ever been alone with both kids, and son is now 5 1/2 months old.

I wouldn't even ask him where he is staying, just about his job and child support if it works similarily as usa.

sorry to bug you guys, it's been a rough day and week is getting more stressed with me back to work-summer is gone teachers back to work, my 1st x h is still bitter.....


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline