listening to the fathers on here, you could teach some of us who had our h's walk out on us when we were pregnant, and continue to stay away.

Hope you are taking a great attitude about living close to the house and near your son, that is what is ultimately important.

i should be a blubbering mess, but taking the attitude of it is what it is. my 1st x is still diggin it to me. our daughter graduated high school and is 18, i pay child support and at times fell behind. now that she is majority, he still wants to collect, when he makes an extremely handsome amount of money.

for him it's not about doing a good thing while i'm struggling to make it with 2 kids under 3, men don't be like that, please.

be very careful about when it comes down to what to ask for adn what the judge orders. i can not stand some stranger some 12 years ago decided who my daughter should live with,...


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline