I meant the knife-wielding part above… I guess it’s too late to go back and say something just to make that point but will keep that in my arsenal!
I felt the same about S16’s comments – so disappointing. I’m sure he didn’t even bring it up, H did. S16 probably just wanted to stay out of the line of fire and said whatever would get him out of the conversation quickest. Unfortunately, it wasn’t the right thing. I did tell H that S16 did not express those same feelings to me¬ – that he was hurt and angry…that I am the one that told him God would look out for us no matter what. H said, “Interesting… so he didn’t come up with that on his own.” I didn’t go into it any further as we were supposed to be doing our exercise. Yeah – I play by the rules, H does not!
I don’t even know why H mentioned the apt thing unless he is just trying to gain the upper hand again. Well, that and he’s totally running on emotion – canceling Facebook one minute looking for a way out the next. He’s just totally screwed up in the head.
I guess I need to go back to S16 but I really want to be done with all of that. I guess I can’t leave H alone with the kids at all, huh?!!!
Oh – H also mentioned that S16 said he would stay with me to “help me out”. SO… he’s already talking custody arrangements??? This man is all over the place.
I’m glad I had this big project to contend with. My mind is too busy on it to worry about H much and the crazy things he is saying. I am definitely going to tell him to knock it off if it comes up again! Maybe we need to implement a no-talking-to-kids rule. ???
