Thanks to everyone for their thoughts and support. It really does mean a lot to me that so many strangers out there are willing to invest their time and effort in my situation. I even got a personal texts and talked with one of you today. That really meant a lot.
Not sure if I mentioned this or not, but my L said that she saw this court commissioner order supervised visits only for a mother who was recorded yelling at her kids and using the F-word. that is why she was so paranoid about the porn conversation. Better to lose this battle, but win the war in the end maybe? This woman has worked here for a long time and is supposed to know these things. Maybe she is a better litigator than a detialed numbers person.
A couple of guys at work rent houses and I have already talked to one of them. He may have a line on a nice place for me while his friend is trying to sell it. The other guy has an affordable place in town that is not too far from school, but neither are walkable. I live in a pretty rural area and there aren't a lot of nice options close to the school that I will be able to afford in the interim. Most are for sale only, not for rent.
I'm still hoping to be able to remain in the house when all is said and done, but I still have to figure out those financials. My atty told me NOT to do this before today's court date, so I didn't, but I think I should have.
Sorry to let you all down, but I have to remember that this is only temporary. I still think I can get a decent deal in the end with the other judge.
