Kalni, I have to be honest and say I do not know your whole sitch. But let me tell you that some of what you are saying is the little voice that comes in my head too. But unfortunately there are questions we both have that will have to wait. My W I believe. (And this is NO excuse for what she did) was and is going through a MLC/ Menopause/ and low self esteem issues. That is what I believe drove her to make that unwise, not thinking choice. Today she is a different person. She still has her esteem issues and I think a little MLC left in her. BUT three years ago I would have NEVER expected her to be back in our bedroom. It may not seem fast enough (I know how you feel) that our spouses are making this return trip from LA LA land.. But they are coming back… look at the positives … I don’t think this is very easy for them. Even though WE think it would be easy.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
