Love your new handle by the way, it is very becoming of you
Wow, it has been a while since I have posted anything on here but I have lurked periodically this summer. I am really happy to see that you are doing so well in your sitch and that you are still strong and working through the hard stuff.
You will have to update us on the latest with you when you get a chance, I hope you are still playing your guitar.
As for me, I needed a break from this place in a big way and with the arrival of summer, I just started to focus on living. Yesterday was my one year "bombiversary" (I think Mindful coined that one and I love it!). I am much more detached and have really made progress on getting my self-esteem back since our failed MC session in March. I have not said one thing about our R since then, just going about my life. She has not mentioned anyting either so I guess that means we are still very much in limbo. The only thing I guess is good is that no R talks has allowed us to just relax and have a good time together which is maybe a good thing, IDK. One year post bomb and she is still here and we are able to laugh and have fun. I still don't know if she has ended her A but she never comes home late anymore since Feb/Mar.
I am getting tired of the limbo though after a year of this. The more my self-esteem creeps back, the less tolerance I have with no intimacy in my M.
I am riding my bike like crazy and lifting more weights than I ever have in my life. I am on track to be in better shape at 41 than I have in my whole life so I guess that is a good thing!
Keep up the good work in your sitch and keep us updated on the progress with you and H.
